Sexuality, Love and Relationship

SEXUALITY, LOVE AND RELATIONSHIP

A practice for deeper intimacy

“I want a kiss from You,
said my heart.
‘Yes, but the price is your life’.
My heart leaped with joy and said:
Who cares about the price!”

—Rumi

CALENDAR OF EVENTS

The sexual energy and the longing for love are the fuel that moves us into relationships. At the same time, lack of understanding and communication around sex, love and relationships prevents us from reaching real intimacy.

We all long for deep, intimate and fulfilling love relationships. Yet very often we experience intimate relationships as very complicated and many times our efforts to find and sustain love result in conflict, disappointment and frustration.

A dance between the Masculine and Feminine polarities

This course is devoted to understand and experience the divine dance of the masculine and feminine polarities: How sexual energy drives us to come together to create intimate relationships, the differences in which it manifests in men and women, and the possibility and challenges of learning about love and oneself that come with it.

We are going to explore and experience how some fundamental differences in the masculine and feminine bodies, brains and hormones shape our behavior and influences our relationships.

We are mirrors for each other

When we understand and honor these differences, without confining ourselves to it, we create the base for a healthy polarity and a loving connection, which gives us the opportunity to love each other according to the old spiritual principle: We are mirrors for each other, through which we can see ourselves more clear and learn to love deeper.

When we work with sexuality and conscious relating we come back to our body with awareness, in love and deep respect.

CALENDAR OF EVENTS

“I would like express my deep admiration for the sensitivity, humbleness and humanity of your doing. For me you two together (Komala and Gregor) can create a very healing space. Caring, maternal, safe and protective with clear rules and boundaries. Male and female qualities balanced together that were hard to experience for me in real life.
The balance I see in you and in between you is very healing and inspiring but what is the most important it feels achievable.”

Klara

A call to fully land in you body and your energy

We are going to re-member our body and its miraculous source of feelings and sensations.

When we land in our body, the joy, sensuality and the whole range of feelings and emotions that becomes available are an invitation for building deeper and satisfying relationships

In this seminar you will:

Open your body – Through dance, movement and play – at physical and energetic levels.
Understand the dynamic of the masculine/feminine polarity as a life principle. Looking at the ways the mature and immature aspects of these polarities plays out in your intimate relationships.
Practice keeping your sexual and energetic connection alive and juicy, through conscious communication, understanding of your partner’s needs and gifts, and through conscious loving touch.
Bring understanding to the beliefs and ideas you carry about men and women. Looking at the patterns you have created throughout life and how they prevent you from finding a love-relationship or nourishing your current relationship.
Learn skills and practices that support you to move from struggle, frustration and disconnection in relationship into a place of appreciation, healing, support and mutual growth.
Get simple, practical and life-transforming tools to deal with relationships in day-to-day life.

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Building a safe container

We build a safe container of trust and easiness as a group to support us reconnect and heal wounds and traumas from the past around sexuality.
We will explore the collective patterns and conditionings around gender, and how they influence our behavior and ideas about men and women, and intimate relationships.
Work with collective systemic rituals to create space for a deeper healing that goes beyond our personal stories and experiences.
Invoke and learn to nourish a spiritual dimension of dedication, learning and growth into relationships.

The healing comes from a place where, together, we recognize that at our core we all long for connection, human warmth and the capacity to recognize both our power and our vulnerability.

This is a work of embodiment

This work is based on the understanding of attachment theory and trauma healing.

Our story about relating has begun long before we can actively remember, and sometimes the earliest patterns – which are not active memories, but feelings in our bodies and emotions – shape us deeply in the way we experience ourselves and our partners in intimacy and relationships. It also shapes our experience of meeting men and women in the open space of everyday relating – in family, at work and with friends.

This is an opportunity to make peace within myself, between men and women, and within our own gender, at a fundamental level.

The energy that we have been using to keep us trapped in the uncomfortable feelings and sensations from old experiences in our bodies becomes available to reconnect with the natural flow of our sexual energy – where we can experience pleasure, joy and aliveness.